
Abide with Deya Tomas
Find Clarity. Live Aligned.
From Chaos to Clarity
The 5 step guide designed to help you get started on building your own Rule of Life, so that you can begin living your life from a place of authenticity and intentionality. No more aimless routines that feel empty and purposeless. Start living with purpose today. Start living with Christ as your guiding compass in all your decisions.Â
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I’m a mom of 4 who believes in holy simplicity, fresh air, and the quiet strength found in living a life centered in Christ. I believe that if every woman anchors her life in Christ, then clarity will naturally flow from that center. I write, share reflections, and offer tools to help women live a life of clarity, purpose, peace, and grace—without chasing perfection.Â
I also offer a course for women who seek to understand their calling and vocation, who yearn to live a life centered in Christ, and who desire to live from a place of authenticity and truth. I am here to help you find your way.Â
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“Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire.”
— St. Catherine of Siena
“The Most Important Person on earth is a mother. She cannot claim the honor of having built Notre Dame Cathedral. She need not. She has built something more magnificent than any cathedral - a dwelling for an immortal soul, the tiny perfection of her baby’s body….The angels have not been blessed with such a grace. They cannot share in God’s creative miracle to bring new saints to Heaven. Only a human mother can. Mothers are closer to God the Creator than any other creature; God joins forces with mothers in performing this act of creation….What on God’s good earth is more glorious than this; to be a mother?”
JĂłzsef Cardinal Mindszenty
A “woman by her very nature is maternal - for every woman, whether married or unmarried, is called upon to be a biological, psychological, or spiritual mother - she knows intuitively that to give, to nurture, to care for others, to suffer with and for them - for maternity implies suffering - is infinitely more valuable in God’s sight than to conquer nations and fly to the moon.”
Alice von Hildebrand
Abide: Find Clarity. Live Aligned.

Reclaim Your Peace and Purpose
Abide gives you a gentle, step-by-step framework to finally bring your faith, motherhood, and daily life into beautiful alignment.
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